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number 38 for 8-29-05:
Wait to Have Your Damned Kids!
It's surprising to some, I would suppose, that the nuclear family is not the norm.
Not to me.
This is a selfish, selfish nation, and if there's one thing that's more important to us than ourselves, it's ourselves.
So if you want to have a kid, go on, just have a fucking kid.
If you want to divorce while you have a kid, go on. You go, girl.
If you want to have a kid when you're not married, you're just expressing yourself.
Don't have enough money to have a kid? Don't worry. Love solves everything.
Except school clothes and food and sanity in the household and the predilection for poor children to head toward violence and the ridicule of your classmates and, well, you know, come to think of it, not having a dual parent house with a buttload of cash doesn't really help you in much of anything. Love my ass. Responsibility. How many of these selfish fucks would wish their kids into non-existence for even the petty and lonesome carefree life that I have?
I hate to be a moralist. I really do. Moralists are repugnant fucks.
But you know what? If you have a kid before you're ready, before you can afford it, before you can take care of it, even if that kid grows up normal, you took a BIG fucking risk, and I think I can safely say I condemn that.
So am I upset that the majority of houses are now single parent households?
You bet my formerly emasculated ass I am. And I was emasculated DESPITE having a two-parent household because my dad had to constantly work and my only influence was my mother. Imagine no dad.
I'd be the biggest goddamned pussy on Earth.
Girls need girl role models. Guys need guy role models. Guys need girl role models. Girls need guy role models. FUCK this "I can do it on my own", selfish, hedonistic mentality that raises the kid that's going to break into my car or give gals the impression that guys want anything but sex.
FUCK this indulgent mentality to the fairer sex that tells them that people will love, support, and coddle them if they have a kid out of wedlock. And fuck the state, the community, the parents, and even the kid for affirming that while not even being able to afford the damned cheerios.
If people would apply even SIMPLE foresight to their lives, there would be no debt, there would be no lost dreams, and there would be no single parent households.
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